Rebecca "Becca"
Lauren Donna Schofield, M.S.M., 18, of
Riverview, NB, passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 17, 2018
at the Moncton Hospital. A beautiful soul who left this world too
soon, she leaves the world a kinder place for having once been part of
it. Born in Moncton, she was the
beloved youngest daughter of Darren and Anne (Savoie)
Schofield.
Besides her parents, she leaves to mourn
with precious memories her sister Gabrielle, her grandmother Rita
Savoie of Eel River Crossing, many aunts, uncles and cousins and a
very large number of extended family and friends for whom she cared
deeply. Becca was predeceased by her
grandparents Donat Savoie, Carl and Dot
Schofield.
As a child, Becca was affectionate,
friendly, generous, and curious. That curiosity got her into more than
a few scrapes, including a hot dog up her nose, a close call with an
electrical outlet and a fork, a hospital visit after taking her
grandmother’s medication and many more. Becca trailed behind
her big sister like a shadow, and wanted to do everything she did.
Gabrielle never let her down.
Becca loved summers at the family cottage,
hanging out with family and friends, books, trying new foods, cooking,
music, games, ringette, and movies.
Becca was 15 years old when a brain tumour
was found in 2015. After enduring surgery and recovery and then months
of aggressive chemotherapy and radiation treatments, two new
inoperable tumors were found in Dec 2016 and she was given 3 to 12
months to live. As a family, they decided they would make the most of
the time they had left, taking every day as a gift and filling it with
laughter and love. Becca thought of some modest bucket list items,
things like playing with a litter of puppies, going on a trip with her
family, and playing board games. With amazing grace and strength,
Becca wrote on her facebook group (Becca’s Battle with
Butterscotch) "Please try to think less of how my life will be
cut short and more of how wicked awesome my time left will be!"
She also requested that people perform acts of kindness and record it
on social media under #BeccaToldMeTo. Becca had a kind heart, and had
long been puzzled about why anyone would be unkind to others.
#BeccaToldMeTo was her attempt to leave the world a better place, to
make her short time here count.
Although she often didn’t feel
well throughout her cancer journey, her last year did have many wicked
awesome moments. With wonderful support from our community her bucket
list items were checked off one by one. With amazing support from
people around the world, it gave her tremendous pleasure that people
were performing acts of kindness, and especially stories from those
who were inspired by her to make life-altering changes in their own
lives.
Becca’s efforts to make the world
a kinder place were recognized on a local, provincial and federal
level, including The Governor General Meritorious Service Medal and
the province of New Brunswick declaring an annual "Becca
Schofield Day" on the third Saturday of
September.
In lieu of flowers, the family would
appreciate donations to the National Kids Cancer Ride
www.nationalkidscancerride, Ronald McDonald House Charities
Atlanticwww.rmhatlantic.com , Friends
of the Moncton Hospital (Pediatrics Unit)www.friendsfoundation.ca , the IWK
www.iwkfoundation.org/donate, or the charity of your
choice.
Thank you to the staff at Moncton Hospital
and IWK for their wonderful care, and to our family, friends,
co-workers, community, and churches for the hundreds of ways you have
supported us through this journey, and for the many acts of kindness
performed in Becca’s name.
Becca’s Family will be receiving
relatives and friends at St. Paul’s United
Church, 404 Cleveland Ave. Riverview on Tuesday from
1:30 – 4:00 PM and from 6:00 – 9:00 PM, An
Ecumenical Service celebrating her life will take place on Wednesday,
February 21, 2018 at 11:00 from The Immaculate Heart of
Mary Catholic Church, 5 Fatima Drive, Riverview with
Father Phil Mulligan and Rev. Dr. Andy O’Neill officiating.
There will be overflow seating in the church hall (Father Dan Bohan
Center). The arrangements are entrusted to Cobb’s Funeral
Home and Cremation Center, 330 Whitepine Road, Riverview (869-2007).
Online condolences can be expressed at
www.cobbsfuneralhome.ca